Glin & Tonic
This is more than a newsletter, it’s a weekly heart-to-heart where I share my real experiences, challenges, and reflections as I navigate my own path. Every week, you’ll receive stories, insights, and reflections designed to inspire, connect, and encourage you to lean into your own growth. It’s a safe space for exploration, where we journey together through the ups and downs of personal growth and self-leadership.
Tags: self-leadership
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#171: Glin & Tonic - Stillness Over Striving
When the proving voice falls quiet, we can see whether we’re optimising for recognition or for impact that truly matters.
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I’m struggling to find the words today, and I’ve been asking myself this question: “What’s the point?”
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When I sit to write my blog each week, I want my words ...
by Glin Bayley —
Sep 21, 2025
alignment
authenticity
clarity
contribution
ego
human design
inner work
proving voice
self-leadership
stillness
#166: Glin & Tonic - Why Not You?
What meeting Oprah is teaching me about nervous system recalibration, identity traps, and daring to live inside your vision now.
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This week I felt my dream move closer.
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The kind of dream that makes you smile when you say it out loud - partly from excitement, partly because you know it sounds o...
Aug 10, 2025
creative becoming
human design journey
identity work
impossible dreams
inner work outer impact
meeting oprah
nervous system recalibration
personal transformation
self-leadership
the identity trap
#161: Glin & Tonic - Stop Proving. Start Becoming.
What fearless authenticity really asks of us, and why it’s worth it.
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In my study, right in front of my desk, there’s a quote I see daily - Be Fearlessly Authentic.
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Some days I notice it consciously. Other days it’s just there, quietly holding space.
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It reminds me that to become my future se...
by Glin Bayley —
Jul 06, 2025
becoming who you are
conscious business
courageous communication
embodiment work
emotional maturity
fearless authenticity
inner transformation
negotiation and influence
personal growth
self-leadership
#160: Glin & Tonic - When Truth Feels Like Conflict
On staying true to yourself, even when it’s misunderstood.
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This past week, I had an experience that reminded me how easily emotional honesty can be misunderstood.
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I was at an event with friends. It was meant to be a light, social night, a friend had kindly paid for my ticket, we’d driven toge...
by Glin Bayley —
Jun 29, 2025
boundaries
emotional honesty
human connection
inner negotiation
living from alignment
personal integrity
self-leadership
self-trust
vulnerability
#156: Glin & Tonic - Being Paid to Be Me
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It’s a Small but Big Change
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I did it.
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I made a decision to embrace all of me.
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To allow myself to become SimplyGlin.
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It’s where I began in 2017, when I first launched my personal blog under the same name. A year later, it became my company, Simply Glin Pty Ltd.
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I was on the right path....
by Glin Bayley —
Jun 01, 2025
authenticity
being paid to be me
coming home to yourself
entrepreneurship
feminine leadership
identity
inner transformation
personal growth
self-leadership
simply glin
#155: Glin & Tonic - Stop Worrying What They Think
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Who are the 'they' whose thoughts and opinions you consistently concern yourself with?
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You know, the ones you think of when you ask yourself questions like:
What will they think?
What if they think I've lost the plot based on what I share?
What if they judge me?
What if they don't thi...
by Glin Bayley —
May 24, 2025
authenticity
creative confidence
emotional freedom
inner transformation
mindset
overcoming fear
personal growth
self-expression
self-leadership
the inner negotiation
validation vs alignment
#154: Glin & Tonic - The Noise, the Signal, and the Hungry Hippos
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"Have you noticed how all the big creators from LinkedIn are jumping onto Substack?" I asked a friend this week.
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"It feels like there’s no sacred space for creative expression anymore." Soon, Substack - like LinkedIn - will be filled with people chasing audiences, using it as yet another plat...
May 18, 2025
authenticity
creative expression
inner truth
online noise
presence
reflection
self-leadership
signal over noise
slow growth
writing
#151: Glin & Tonic - The Shift from Proving to Presence
How inner transformation redefines success, value, and visibility.
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In three days, we will be at the end of April, and I'll be writing my One Pager for the month, reflecting on how I grew, what changes and progress I made towards my goals, and who I became this month.
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I'm feeling a little appr...
by Glin Bayley —
Apr 27, 2025
authenticity
ego work
emotional resilience
human design
inner transformation
letting go of proving
personal growth
presence
self-leadership
self-worth
#150: Glin & Tonic - The cost of not being honest with yourself
I've been lying to myself, and this week I allowed myself to become present to how much we all lie to ourselves to avoid the discomfort of living out of alignment with our deepest truth.
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I spoke last time about how brutal transformation is. I wonder how many of us truly aspire to shedding the l...
by Glin Bayley —
Apr 19, 2025
alignment
becoming who you are
conscious living
emotional truth
frequency & energy
future self
human design
inner transformation
inner work
living in alignment
personal growth
raising your standards
resistance
self-honesty
self-leadership
#149: Glin & Tonic - The brutal tuth about transformation
If you've been following along, you'll know 2025 is my year for deep inner transformation.
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I chose this path after noticing how often my decisions were driven by fear and scarcity. I constantly felt like I was behind, watching others seemingly master the art of life and—in Gary Vaynerchuck's wo...
by Glin Bayley —
Apr 13, 2025
authenticity
conscious leadership
courage
ego work
emotional intelligence
human design
inner growth
mindset shift
negotiation mastery
personal development
self-awareness
self-discovery
self-leadership
transformation
vulnerability
#142: Glin & Tonic - Letting Go of Obligations to Step Into Your Future Self
I'm being really harsh with myself, but I had to say this out loud to get the feelings out of my body, this week felt like a bit of a clusterfuck.
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Nobody on the receiving end of my time would have thought that because I was fully in contribution mode this week.
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The only person I didn’t contri...
by Glin Bayley —
Feb 22, 2025
boundaries matter
choosing yourself
energy management
future self
identity shift
inner transformation
letting go
personal growth
self-leadership
trust the process